Perfection in relationships

Hey, there are you one of those who believes in theory of perfection, the one who is seeking a perfect career, a perfect life, a perfect partner, a perfect relationship. What is perfection? Is anything which is perfect is exist? How you define perfection?

If I am talking about definition, it can be differ person to person based on their priority. simply says Perfection is like completeness. Completeness means no room for improvement. There is no such thing exist which is perfect. If we talk about perfect relationship what does it mean. perfect relationship means love there is no conflicts and only fulfillment of expectations.

In a relationship we have huge expectations with our partner if for some reason our expectation is not fulfilled, we get hurt and start complaining for trivial matters or conflicts. people forget that you two are different persons having different personalities, different thought process, having different likes and dislikes. So there is a chance of conflicts if you have the freedom to express, freedom to do thing own.

"Perfect relationship is not that you never angry with each other. It's understanding how fast you resolve and get back together."

 Do you even seen two perfect or complete things together make a new perfect thing. Let me take a simple example of jigsaw cardboard puzzle which consists a picture printed on cardboard and cut into many pieces of odd shapes that have to be fitted together to complete the puzzle. What if we cut them into even shapes (complete piece in rectangular or circular shape) that can't be fitted together. For make strong bonding those pieces should accept flaw of another piece so they can together make a complete puzzle. Same in life, no one perfect everyone have flaws so you have to find a person who accept you as what you are. You have to rebuild each other and try to fix every problem together.