Attitude will change your life

What do you understand by term Attitude? You might hear a positive or negative attitude, but nobody talks about the right attitude. Being optimistic is good but optimism based on reality is far better. Attitude defines your relationship with family, friends, and co-workers. Attitude can be defined as evaluations of ideas, objects, and people around us. Attitude is a way of thinking and feeling about something.

In psychology, Attitude has three components which are called ABC model of attitude.

·         A for Affective (emotional reaction one has towards an object )

·         B for Behavioral(it refers to one behaves when exposed to an object)

·         C for cognitive( it refers to the beliefs, thoughts, and attributes that one associated with an object)

“A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with     a certain set of right attitude.”

We are mentally biased or prejudiced towards people and situations. If you are going to meet strange people, without knowing him you think bad about that person surely that meeting going fruitless. Attitude is like a mental filter by which you experience this world some people see the world with a filter of optimism and others with a filter of pessimism. Everyone faces problems in life, life starts to throw dirt and stone on our window. Most of people do nothing about that filthy window and dirt keeps building up and they lost their enthusiasm and become pessimistic.  You have a choice to live with a filthy window or clean it. It’s your job to clean that filthy window.

At many times you have no control over circumstances you faced worst conditions but one thing is on which you have full control, Attitude. How do you see problems? How you handle problems? It’s totally in your own hands. Watch a child when he starts to walk, he falls down many times. Instead of blaming the situation or parents he smiles, gets up and makes another attempt.

A little positive thinking doesn’t produce positive results like one-day dieting doesn’t work. One must take control of one’s mental activities and think positively throughout each and every day until it becomes a habit. Your beliefs brought you to where you are today and your thinking from this point forward will take you to where you’ll be in the future.   

Everything you achieve in your life comes from your thinking and beliefs. Negative thinking yields negative results and positive thinking produce positive results so it’s your choice what you want in life.

You must take care of what you hear, what you speak and what you think. Your mind hears every word you say and work like a magnet, it attracts the events and circumstances that correspond to your belief system. So make sure to use positive words about yourself and your goals.

Every adversity or problem carries with it the seed of an equivalent or greater benefit so try to turn your problems into opportunities.                                                              -Napoleon hills