Patience & How to develop it

Patience is a virtue. Everyone is in a hurry and tried to get done things or work quickly by any means. Technologies allow us to do work fastly like to order food, get a taxi, online shopping, etc.

“patience is the capacity to wait for somebody or something”

Ask yourself, Do you like to wait for anything? I guess no. we get annoyed without any reason this is our lifestyle today.

It can be divided into two parts:

Former is Active which includes thinking and learning and Later is Relationship.

If you learn to keep patience you can easily eliminate or minimize frustration in your daily tasks. For a better relationship for success even for a better person, you have to understand the value of patience and learn it.

 Let’s take the example of Chinese Bamboo. A Gardener planting a bamboo tree and he waits for long to grow bamboo but once it starts growing it grows very rapidly .some of you know about Bamboo it takes at least 4-5 years to grow. initially 4 years it absorbs minerals and water and develops deep root and it springs out and you can see exponential growth. So it's all about patience.

“One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life”

Sometimes Patience can struggle. I have also faced So many moments with impatience. We get irritated when waiting at the traffic lite, waiting at the ATM queue, waiting at any government offices, baby crying or waiting for food all seems like a never-ending process. 

We just started to abuse or blame concerning authority. We need to understand that life gives us many important lessons to learn to improve.

“Your mind will answer most of the questions if you learn to relax and wait for an answer.”  - William S Burroughs

If we understand the importance of patience then it will help many ways. Patience can change failure into success. With patience, you can avoid hasty or wrong decisions.

We are very impatient with your past and future. We regret our fault or wrongdoing and spoil our present. Life is about to live in present, accept challenges with patience and answer them and make it better.

Have you ever noticed whenever you are in trouble, you are advised to keep patience first . Why people say to have patience first rather than solve the problem? Here is the answer because when you are calm and composed your subconscious mind will answer most of your problems.

        “To lose patience is to lose the battle.” – Mahatma Gandhi